Some say the best way to learn about money is to learn from past money mistakes — after all, you live and learn.
No one wants to make financial errors, but if a mistake happens, it should become a stepping stone toward becoming a better money manager.
Learning from money mistakes is essential, because nobody wants to repeat the same errors.
Unfortunately, repeating the same mistakes is common when people don’t take time to reflect and learn from their past choices.
I’m not afraid to admit I’ve made plenty of these mistakes. I’m not perfect — everyone has missteps. Instead of avoiding them, I believe in facing my money mistakes and learning from them so similar problems won’t happen again.
Below I share seven money mistakes I made and how they helped shape me into a more responsible financial decision-maker. A few years ago my approach to money was very different, and it proves you can turn your finances around by taking control of your personal finances.
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Here are some of the money mistakes I’ve made and what I’ve learned from them.
I took out extra student loans.
I didn’t borrow a lot each semester, but over time I added a few thousand dollars in extra loans to cover everyday expenses.
That was a mistake. I worked full-time and should have managed my money better instead of treating student loans like free cash.
High-interest student loans taught me never to fall into that trap again. Loans and credit cards are not free money — eventually you must repay them.
Many people borrow more than they need and live off the difference. Instead of increasing student loan debt, find ways to earn additional income or cut expenses so you don’t feel forced to borrow for living costs.
How I paid off my student loans by age 24 was a turning point in my finances and proof that focused effort can eliminate debt.
I bought a brand new car at 18.
One of my biggest mistakes was buying a brand new car at 18. I don’t judge anyone who can afford a new car, but I certainly couldn’t.
I’d been working full-time for a few years and convinced myself I deserved it. In reality, my $400 monthly car payment sucked up a large portion of my income and left me living paycheck to paycheck.
That payment made covering rent, food, college, and other expenses difficult. I would have been much better off with a more affordable vehicle.
The lesson: be realistic with spending. Avoid high fixed costs that prevent you from saving and building stability.
I waited to start investing.
I often tell people the first step to investing is to just begin, but I didn’t follow my own advice. Even as a financial analyst working with businesses, I was intimidated by investing my own money.
I delayed investing for far too long, letting cash sit idle in a bank account. That was a missed opportunity for growth.
Investing can feel scary and overwhelming, but it’s essential for long-term goals like retirement, handling unexpected events, and allowing your money to grow.
Taking small steps, learning the basics, and starting early are powerful habits that compound over time.
I spent way too much money on clothing.
When I worked at a clothing store for about five years, I often spent more on clothes than I earned, even with an employee discount. The temptation to buy every shift was real.
Looking back, I’m surprised I avoided credit card debt. Now I spend very little on clothing and focus on quality and pieces I will actually wear for years.
The shift from buying trends to selecting durable, useful items made my life simpler and my finances healthier.
I cared too much about keeping up with others.
I used to worry a lot about how I appeared to others and bought the latest items to fit in. This “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality is common and dangerous.
Trying to match others’ lifestyles can drain your finances, push you to use credit, and leave you with expenses you don’t truly value. I once had high monthly costs and lived paycheck to paycheck because of this mindset.
Now I buy what I actually want, stop competing with others, and am much happier and less stressed financially.
I thought everything I was doing was normal.
Before improving my money management, I assumed my financial habits were normal. I believed everyone carried credit card debt, student loans, car payments, cable bills, and expensive phones.
That mindset allowed poor habits to persist and kept me financially stressed. I no longer want to be “normal” if normal means never achieving financial freedom.
Today I aim to retire early, travel, be debt-free, and avoid keeping up with others. My perspective on money and life changed dramatically in just a few years.
I took part in emotional spending.
Emotional spending used to be a frequent response to stress or a bad day. I rationalized purchases by rewarding myself for working hard, but these buys didn’t solve the underlying issues.
Emotional spending is a harmful habit. For many households, it contributes to significant credit card debt. To stop emotional spending, try:
- Calculating the total debt you carry so you see the real impact of your purchases.
- Understanding why you spend when stressed to break the cycle.
- Keeping financial goals in mind to stay motivated.
- Finding healthier ways to manage stress.
- Sticking to a budget.
What money mistakes have you made? What did you learn from them?