He that is good for making excuses is seldom good for anything else. ― Benjamin Franklin
Excuses hold people back. I know this because I hear them nearly every day, and I have made plenty myself.
People often insist they aren’t making excuses even as they explain why something can’t be done.
So what exactly is an excuse?
An excuse is a reason or explanation given to defend or justify a fault or failure.
Excuses appear in all parts of life: why someone can’t land a job, why debt remains unpaid, why a new car is “necessary,” or why personal improvement seems out of reach.
I’m not suggesting life is easy or that other people’s problems aren’t real—everyone faces hardship. But excuses are still excuses, and most people make them until they recognize how counterproductive they are.
Think about the last time you said, “That won’t work for me because…” and filled in the blank.
As someone who writes about personal finance, I hear many explanations for why people can’t save, can’t pay off debt, or can’t prepare for retirement.
There are valid reasons for financial setbacks—illness, unexpected job loss, emergencies—but there are also too many excuses that keep people from taking control.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop comparing your life to someone else’s and using that comparison as a reason not to try. Stop saying you’ll do it tomorrow, next year, or after you save more. Start taking steps to improve your life now.
This is a tough-love message: excuses waste time, prevent progress, and do nothing for your future. I see excuses everywhere on social media, and it’s discouraging because they rarely help anyone.
Excuses won’t fix problems, but action will.
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Stop making excuses!
When was the last time you heard yourself say one of these lines?
- “They had a better start than me, so there’s no point in trying.”
- “I can’t pay off my debt because _____.”
- “I need a new car or I can’t work.”
- “I don’t have time to earn extra money.”
- “They had everything paid for by their parents, that’s why they succeeded.”
- “I deserve the things I buy.”
- “I enjoy my job; I can save for retirement later.”
- “My city is too expensive to save money.”
- “It’s too late to start saving.”
These rationalizations are a habit that can keep you from reaching your goals and living the life you want.
You’re giving up before you begin.
Achieving goals requires effort and persistence. No one has a perfect life, so it’s pointless to treat obstacles as permanent roadblocks. I’ve made excuses myself, but stopping that habit changed my outlook and results.
Occasional excuses may be understandable during stress or defeat, but they won’t move you forward.
By making excuses, you’re wasting your time.
I use a simple question to check myself: Will I spend more time worrying about doing something than it actually takes to do it?
Will I spend more time thinking about doing something than it would actually take me to do it?
Instead of dwelling on reasons not to act, I say yes and figure out how to make it happen. Stepping out of your comfort zone can be hard, but new experiences and progress are worth it.
Making excuses wastes time you could use to build a plan and pursue your goals.
Next time you’re about to make an excuse, remember that negativity is just time lost—and you’re better than that.
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You won’t fix your problems by making excuses.
Many people struggle financially. Consider these common facts about the average household:
- 68% live paycheck to paycheck.
- 26% have no emergency savings.
- Median retirement savings are under $60,000.
- Average household credit card debt is $7,283.
- Average student loan debt is $32,264.
These numbers show many people need to make deliberate changes. While unavoidable situations exist—medical bills or sudden unemployment—excuses still won’t resolve those issues.
If you want to stop living paycheck to paycheck, build emergency savings, and take control of your finances, you must acknowledge mistakes and take steps to improve your situation.
Stop making excuses and start planning practical changes.
Stop comparing yourself to others.
When you make excuses, it’s often because you’re comparing yourself to someone else and minimizing their achievements to explain your own lack of progress.
Everyone’s journey is different. Some people reach goals faster; others must work harder. Comparing yourself only distracts from the work you need to do.
Focus on your path and what you can do today to move toward your goals.
Quit making excuses for why things can’t happen for you.
If you truly want to improve, you’ll find a way. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, figure out the steps you must take to succeed.
Desire alone isn’t enough—you must invest effort and remain persistent. Making excuses is equivalent to quitting before you start. Who wants to be a quitter?
The path to your goal may include setbacks, but it only becomes impossible if you give up.
Find out why you make excuses.
Understanding the reasons behind your excuses is the first step to overcoming them. Common causes include:
- Fear of failure or fear of hard work.
- General anxiety or feeling scared.
- Belief that life is unfair.
- Lack of true desire or motivation.
- Low self-confidence.
Often these reasons trace back to past experiences or ingrained habits. Identifying what holds you back makes it possible to address those issues and move forward.
Start believing in yourself.
Success rarely comes easily. If it were effortless, everyone would be successful. To change your life, believe in your ability to improve and stop making excuses.
Recall past successes and skills as proof you can overcome new challenges. Admit when you’re making excuses—self-awareness is essential for change.
Changing your mindset may be uncomfortable at first, but over time you’ll see that excuses were wasted energy. If you truly want something, you can find ways to make it happen.
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Are you guilty of finding excuses for why things don’t go your way? What steps are you taking to stop?